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01 July 2013 @ 11:52 am
One of the posts that inspired me to laugh derisively at Rod Bigg or whatever his name is and his unconvincing textual transvestism came from triciasullivan, and I point you to it because it has much else of interest to say. As a malefan, I hate being part of a culture that does the sort of thing she is talking about. I think men in all the fandoms and geek cultures should sign on to something like this:

We like women. We want women at our consWe want cons that women will attend and enjoy, so we want them to be safe and comfortable at them. Therefore, we do not accept groping, PUA aggressions, treating a costume as an invitation, and other such behavior at our gatherings. We want women in our online discussions, so we do not accept threats of rape or other violence in those venues. We want to read about women, much more than we want to read about men's fantasies about women. Therefore, we want more women being published, and we want the men who write about women to employ means of doing the job better, such as submitting the writing to actual women and listening to what they say.

Improved by mrissa
Marissa Lingenmrissa on July 1st, 2013 06:30 pm (UTC)
"We want women at our cons" sounds pretty possessive to me, like cons are properly the property of men and the good men are sharing them with women. Since I know you, I know this is not what you mean, but "we want to go to cons with women" or "we want to go to cons where people of all sexes/genders are welcome" would feel a little less like that.
El Coyote Gordo: actualsupergee on July 1st, 2013 06:46 pm (UTC)
You have improved it. Thank you.